WHY BEING BETRAYED IS THE BEST THING THAT CAN EVER HAPPEN TO YOU!!!

Betrayal is like an induction test you need to get into the exclusive world of business. It separates the boys from the men and girls from women. Yes everybody this is a test you need to pass and l am providing you with the cheat sheet with all the answers. Even we librarians face this test from time to time.

Have you ever been deeply betrayed by a colleague who used you as a stepping stone to success. Then let me guess you then went around o your friends in the office ranting about the unfairness of it all and painting yourself as a victim of malicious sabotage. Well my friend you are not alone. As much as people always tell us to be prepared for the worst in business but we never are. So now let us discuss the best ways to deal with such an act.

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I understand most people might think this is easy as you are simple trying to express your anger but you are forgetting one significant detail the offender also views himself as an innocent who was forced by circumstances. So in this situation instead of being angry and shouting try and explain it to them how angry their actions made you. Yes people talking over stuff is not something only reserved for women? Even though it might not achieve much it relieves the anger in you.

Sulking

Yes if something this bad happened to you, you are given a free ticket which allows you to sulk but only for a day. You do not want to destroy all your friendships by holding grudges and refusing to talk. There is a thin line between being angry and being immature do not cross it. Give yourself a couple of hours to blame the offender for all the bad things that are happening into your life and how you want to make them suffer. That brings us to point number 5.

Plan the most elaborate revenge plots

No one said you have to mature about but remember plan it do not implement it. Think of the most complicated plan which will cost a lot of money and include even celebrities like Sylvester Stallone to say in his amazing accent that revenge is a dish best served cold. You are even allowed to form an evil laugh and cackle to yourself for the whole day. Remember just one day do not exceed that.sylvester Funny Sylvester Stallone MEME

Forgive Them

This is the final and most crucial step FORGIVENESS. Yes even though they do not deserve it and will most likely do it again just forgive them. Remember you are not doing it for them but for you. Release that grudge so that it stops being your problem and weighing you down. That is the only way you can make it in business.

Get betrayed, follow these steps then and most importantly let it go. Yes as hard as it may be if you don’t let it go you are only hurting yourself. Most importantly remember what does not kill you only makes you stronger.strong

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HOW TO BECOME A MILLIONAIRE IN 30 SECONDS

Got your attention. Well no one can make that money in thirty seconds. Even the most dedicated planners who are able to play the stock market do not make that money in 30 seconds.

ANSWER THE QUESTION: WHY DO YOU CRAVE SUCCESS

When you look at this topic you might think of a hundred answers. Don’t lie no one is watching you are allowed to say those superficial answers most people will judge you for. Personally l crave success because l mostly want the money that comes from it. Yes l said it, it is all about the money. I am not going to lie and be noble and start listing reasons like l want to be successful to help my country and my people. Well l am not yet big headed enough to think that more than 50 000 people knowing my name will automatically lead to world peace, here is news for you, it won’t.

I am now getting off topic the whole reason people crave success and money is simple so that you can rub it in the faces of people who thought you will ever achieve it. As much glory and joy you will get from being successful it is really hard work and requires a lot of patience. Here l am seated behind my desk in the library reading all these success stories about how easy it is to become rich well it is not.

BRING ON THE CRAZY IDEAS

To become successful first you need to think out of the box. You need that one idea that people who are close to you scoff at and turn it into a multi-million dollar idea. But that is just the tip of the ice berg. Having an idea is easy it is making a business plan that makes everyone take a step back

DROWN YOURSELF IN A BUSINESS PLAN

A business plan is what l think of as my mother’s voice saying “is that so? Are you really sure?” It questions every little thing you have about your business idea from the name to the actual product or service you want to sell. Are you really sure that is the best name to use for your product. Calling your ice-cream lipstick “brrr” will not get you customers. However it will get you some interesting comments.

TURN THAT DREAM INTO REALITY

The big step implementing that idea. Yah believe it the money you have invested so far is nothing compared to the money you will use now. This is where many people fall of the wagon and begin to play it safe. Safety never made anyone rich unless you are a super hero who actually protects a city or a country.

One final thing before l close this is to remember that profits will not start rolling in. You must face reality there is a high chance your business might fail but just get back on that horse and put cushions this time.

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DO WOMEN REALLY NEED TO THINK LIKE MEN TO MAKE IT IN THE WORLD OF BUSINESS? 4 TIPS ON HOW WOMEN CAN MAKE IT ON THEIR OWN.

Recently l came across a quote which states that it is hard to be a woman. To make it as a woman you must think like a man, act like a lady, work like a horse and look like a young girl. Honestly, who sets these impossible standards which make it difficult for a woman to make it in the cut throat world of business? Ladies there is a much simpler way for you to achieve success without killing either yourself or your principles.girls

The first step to empowerment is for us women to empower ourselves instead of waiting on the wings for someone to empower us. Remember we do not have to pull each either down to make it. There is no need to be distributing the Judas kiss to your friends just to secure yourself as the top dog.

Be confident

The first step is to believe in yourself. If you cannot trust yourself then why should we. Once you believe in yourself confidence will follow easily. Confidence is empowering for everyone. Women need to stop constantly questioning themselves and be confident in their decisions.confidence

Learn a new skill

Learning a new skill becomes harder the older we get but know that it will make you feel better about yourself. It might be joining a karate class or learning a new language but it is something to separate from the majority and help you fight the stereotypes. As an added bonus you never know when it might be handy to know Italian or be able to karate chop  a person to their knees.

Set boundaries.

As a woman trying to empower herself you need to set boundaries. People should know that you have lines that must never be crossed. Everyone can take a joke but it is a strong woman who can set boundaries and stick to them. Being a people pleaser will not help you on your way to being an empowered woman.

Embrace yourself

Self-acceptance is the key to empowerment; it does not matter whether you are old, young, thin or fat embrace yourself. Own your identity and make it a part of your charm. People will accept you warts and all if you first of all accept your own warts. It is when we try to hide our insecurities that we bring even more focus on them. An empowered woman loves herself just the way she is.acceptance

These tips will help you from being a follower into being a leader.

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