Wow twitter is just so addictive. Women should not go on twitter. As the people who support the community the world would come to a stop just because we keep on tweeting every five seconds. Let me tell on my first day in twitter l was really non-productive. I literally could not stop myself from going to check who is following me and all the tweets that were pouring in.mw

Hello people this librarian is officially in the 21st century. I finally joined twitter after years and years of resistance the pressure has finally forced me to cave.

I pride myself in being a laggard. Yep l am one of the few people who still use a phone with buttons. It might seem impossible to you because you think those phones are now more extinct than dinosaurs but there you have it.dinasour

So then l have recently started on twitter and let me tell you its marvellous. I am like one of those boring twitter friends who update every five things about the most boring things but it is fun.

To those who still have not yet caved in continue the fight on my behalf l am weak and have fallen into temptation. Please tell me how long you have resisted this fight l am curious to find out if anyone has broken my record it is FIVE years people.friends

To those who caved in well l say if you can’t beat them join them l am now on your side my brothers and sisters. Since we are now on the dark side we might as well have some fun. Catch me on the flip side at @BloggingTheo Please women be strong twitter is not a place for the weak.

To everyone else complete the polls and lets have some fun. mistake

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Recently l came across a quote which states that it is hard to be a woman. To make it as a woman you must think like a man, act like a lady, work like a horse and look like a young girl. Honestly, who sets these impossible standards which make it difficult for a woman to make it in the cut throat world of business? Ladies there is a much simpler way for you to achieve success without killing either yourself or your principles.girls

The first step to empowerment is for us women to empower ourselves instead of waiting on the wings for someone to empower us. Remember we do not have to pull each either down to make it. There is no need to be distributing the Judas kiss to your friends just to secure yourself as the top dog.

Be confident

The first step is to believe in yourself. If you cannot trust yourself then why should we. Once you believe in yourself confidence will follow easily. Confidence is empowering for everyone. Women need to stop constantly questioning themselves and be confident in their decisions.confidence

Learn a new skill

Learning a new skill becomes harder the older we get but know that it will make you feel better about yourself. It might be joining a karate class or learning a new language but it is something to separate from the majority and help you fight the stereotypes. As an added bonus you never know when it might be handy to know Italian or be able to karate chop  a person to their knees.

Set boundaries.

As a woman trying to empower herself you need to set boundaries. People should know that you have lines that must never be crossed. Everyone can take a joke but it is a strong woman who can set boundaries and stick to them. Being a people pleaser will not help you on your way to being an empowered woman.

Embrace yourself

Self-acceptance is the key to empowerment; it does not matter whether you are old, young, thin or fat embrace yourself. Own your identity and make it a part of your charm. People will accept you warts and all if you first of all accept your own warts. It is when we try to hide our insecurities that we bring even more focus on them. An empowered woman loves herself just the way she is.acceptance

These tips will help you from being a follower into being a leader.

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